Thursday, March 01, 2007

No scribble tonight!

The other day I was telling my friend in office that I’m very happy! I know not a path breaking event that was, but since I was quite broody the whole day; the sudden spurt of happiness which was written all over my face surely conjured up a very valid ‘why’ on her face!
When she succumbed to the persistent query I couldn’t help her much when I replied that “Yes, I’m very happy….. that too all of a sudden, but the reason behind this I can’t tell you as you won’t understand it at all!” Now before she could take it as an offence I had to pacify her by telling that, her not understanding doesn’t have anything to do with her intellect as it might sound at the first utterance. It’s just that I figured that she won’t get it, because the reason that makes me really happy might not seem like a reason at all to her! It’s just a change in the way you look at things… the way you learned to look at things……
On a different note, (may be on the same context, but somehow distant), it never ceases to make me wonder how people judge others even without knowing the truth!
May be the truth is too far fetched to be understood with all your life’s education…..
I myself have done the same fallacy of judging people with limited knowledge…. but I’m in all earnest when I say that I know I’m mistaken…….. each and every time!

6 comments:

GoGo said...

Its so hard not to judge sometimes. I try and remember a judgment is only a reflection of how I SEE THE WORLD. This way, its back on me what I think not the other person...makes it harder to judge.

Glad you had a happy day. :)

virginiavalle.blogspot.com said...

I like the photo,amazing dirty textures hehehehe and yes sometimes is hard not to judge,but personally I try not to judget,because you never know.....anyway I like to feel happy too and glad you had a happy day..

Anonymous said...

i believe we judge people on our perception of them. If our preconceived notion of people get in the way of our understanding them, that is a bad thing. But preconception is quite different from perception. though at the same time perception can be imperfect too but its not as bad judging someone on basis random preconceived thought!

anyways have a great day! and be happy as you always claim to be! :)

kunal kundu said...

Thanks anonymous! Got your point.
Btw who told you that I always claim to be happy?!! : )

Anonymous said...

you!!

My Unfinished Life said...

yeah....it's hard to comprehend sometimes....and also the fact that it's hard not to try to understand ...we all have this curiosity within us which makes us wanna know how what which and when.......